<blockquote><font class="small">Quote:</font><hr>PillowRock wrote:
<font color=yellow>I took the "will turn to ash" phrase to be referring to any given feeling of love, joy, or whatever.</font color=yellow><hr></blockquote>Then we read it in similar ways. You see, that was what I was addressing by saying that things can only last in change.
<blockquote><font class="small">Quote:</font><hr><font color=yellow>It is certainly true that couples who were once in love sometimes grow apart. I understood Lorien to be saying that, given enough millenia, that will happen to any and all couples. That may, in fact, be true...</font color=yellow><hr></blockquote>In my opinion, it would be false. Love is subject to change just like everything else. Nothing can remain without changing. If love is to remain, it too should change. If beings who love each other remain unchanged and together for millions of years, love will definitely wear off. They will grow apart. Hell, it can happen to our kind in very short times.
If you want to preserve something, you must let it change. If people/beings love each other and wish it to remain that way, they will have to change. They must learn how to change together. Partly in similar and partly in different directions. If not for anything else, then to remain interesting for each other.
If one human can get to know another in years, the same should apply to first ones. They would be more complex, but their capability to understand is greater. So to avoid feelings turning to ash, one should not confine them. One should always change. Forget something old and gain something new. There is enough in this world to explore.
One should not confine one's curiosity and interests. Time together can only be interesting after time apart. If you stick some fish in a tiny aquarium, even they will feel confined. In case of sentient beings, the effect would be manifold. Beings of vast knowledge and capability in a too small galaxy... can be adequately compared to fish in a too small aquarium.