Good luck with quitting smoking, Joe (I didn't know you were a smoker).
My biggest problem with smoking (other than the health concerns, of course) is not even the smoke itself, but how much the smell of smoke lingers on everything it touches. Unfortunately, most of my friends smoke, and all it takes is about 30 minutes around them for the smell of smoke to get on me.
If I'm around smokers for several hours, the smell gets into my clothes, skin, and hair. When I get home, I reak of it. I have to change all my clothes, wash my face and arms, and run water through my hair. Sometimes I'll just go ahead and take a full shower, and the smell still doesn't completely go away. Even when wearing jeans and a shirt-tail tucked in, I've even had smoke smell get all the way into my underwear (don't ask me how I know). I graduated from high school in 1993, and all my high school yearbooks still smell like smoke because my parents used to smoke in the house when I was in high school.
I think smokers don't realize how much smoke makes themselves, other people, or things around them stink. They're probably immune to the smell since they intentionally take it into their body all the time. If someone tells them it sticks, they probably don't believe it or just don't care. Maybe that's even part of the addiction--that it makes you oblivious and/or apathetic of the after-effects of smoke (and I'm not even talking about the health effects, although you'd think that would be enough to keep people from starting in the first place).
Again, good luck quitting, Joe. I always look forward to your posts; I respect how well you express your opinions and enjoy all your industry knowledge and behind-the-scenes info. You're a good guy, and you deserve to do this good thing for yourself and those around you. Whether it's patches, pure willpower, or a combination, I hope it works for you.
Hope something works for my dad too. Mom said he's going to try (again) to quit. She didn't quit until a near heart attack landed her in the hospital for several days about seven years ago. My parents' ex-neighbor is finally trying to quit too, but it took her trouble breathing and about 10 days in the hospital with a bronchial virus before she finally decided she'd try to quit. Please, don't wait until a health problem "forces" you to quit.